How to Argue with your Wife Philippines

wag salubingin ang init ng ulo naming mga babae
kung ayaw ng endless nagging!! hehehe

Tama ang sinabi lalo na kung mga babae may problema...^_^

If you decide to engage in an argument, be sure that both of you stick to the single issue which both of you are discussing about. It might help if you just let her do all the talking first. After which, you can signal her that it is your time to talk and present your side regarding the issue.

alam mo naman

kaming mga girls

once na nag init na ulo

andami ng issue na lalabas sa bibig...

hehehe im not saying all girls but in general!

puwedeng sa wife's perspective? as a wife, pag may argument kami ng husband ko, i just let us cool down. mahirap kasi pag pareho mainit ulo namin. para kaming pressure cooker waiting to explode, ayoko ng ganun. tatahimik lang muna ako, but it's very funny pag tumahimik ako, kasi feeling niya, siya ang may kasalanan. sabi nga nila, pag ang babae ang tumahimik, sobrang napapaisip daw yung lalake.

anyway, wag lang talaga magsalubong ang init ng ulo niyong mag-asawa. mahirap yun. and last but not the least, do not go to bed na hindi nakakapag-usap ng maayos. communication is everything.

if arguement about to start kasi ng hubby ko what we did is we both kept silent and wait till we calm down para makapg usap ng maayos..Kasi pag pilitin namin naku one will sleep outside the room siguro..And we dont sleep kasi without patching things or hindi kami magkasundo ulit.

Keep calm always, shouting or anger will lead you nowhere.
If you start an argument, finish it before the end of the day, mahirap kc kapag papatagalin, mas maraming issue ang lalabas.

Okey po yun, Stick to the issue and do not divert to other matters. Focus on the matter at hand. Do not bring back old issues that has no connection to the present one you are arguing about.

dapat habaan lang ang pasesyan wala naman nadadaan sa mabuting usapan

Dapat nga lang na mag choose the best time to bring up the issue when you think your husband is more dispose to discuss the concern.

Message appended on November 17, 2010 11:15PM

Siguro nga kilala ka na ng husbanda mo na unpredictable kang magalit at yuang deadening silence mo ay talagang nakaka nerbios. But when both of you reach a deadlock despite of a lengthy and disciplined argument, you need not resolve the issue all at once in one night. Give it time. Perhaps as days come by both of you will see the issue in a different light and be more open to alternative solutions.

let her do the talking...thats what they do best hehehehe

If she insist to argue, the least you can do is just listen and shut up if you don’t want yet to engage in an argument. After listening to her, tell her that you’d respond to her issues in the soonest possible time, that you need time to process and reply. You’ve done her good by allowing her to vent out her issue.

kapag cool kami, sinasabi ko sa kanya na pag sinabing kong tumahimik na sya pag magaaway kami, gawin nya na lang hehehehe,

Lastly, remember that respect, patience and love are the core components in a relationship. Arguments with your wife is more manageable if you have these values.

kami kapag nag aaway ako nalang ang nagpapakumbaba kasi naiintindihan ko naman kung minsan pagod lang talaga siya sa maghapon na trabaho kaya niya nagagawa iyon

kami naman ng wifey ko hindi pa nagaaway ng talagang malaking away pati nung mag fiance palang kami. laging minor isyu lang... sana hindi na kami mauwi sa malaking away talaga...

Kung mapilit siyang makipag-argue, just listen and shut up, you will be  doing her good favor by allowing her to pour out her issue.

yep, opo. noted po. pero sooon pa siguro. newlywed palang naman kami. sana makaya namin pagdating ng panahon at madami ng stress ang dumadating... hehe hay

It takes two to quarrel, so lay low yung isa lagi huwag sasabay o' sasalubong.

pag nagna-nag ang babae wag nang patulan para di na humaba pa away.