Single at Thirty Something Females.Bakit kaya? Philippines

mahirap ang buhay ngayun.. lahat tumataas araw2 bilihin... kaya mas marami yata na proffesionals ang pinipiling maging singles....

In my opinion, here as some my list why women prepared to be single:

1. To give herself a sense of independence or solitude.

2. Maybe they've had their hearts broken or they've had a rough relationship and are still recovering, or maybe they just don't want to get into it again.

3. They could be confused about their sexuality.

4. They probably don't want to appear as a whore because sometimes in society when you see a pretty lady with a guy and they're on a date, some people will think "Wow, wonder how many others there are".

5. They could be picky.

6. They could prefer being single to being in a relationship whether it's due to freedom, money, whatever. Several reasons could be made.

7. Low self esteem.

marami akong kaibigan na nag-asawa ng mdyo matagal, nagtataka nga ako kung bakit. pero siguro di nila natagpuan ng mas maaga ang mga kapalad nila. meron namang mga babae na wala daw "staying power" na yung mga guys in the long run iniiwan sila. 

ang maganda hindi ako kasama dyan...hhehehe :))

mas madami 30's na single guys... ewan ko nga ba sa generation ngayon...hirap intindihin being an oldschool

Marami kasi ang mga single men/women na tumatayong "padre de pamilya" lalo na kung sila ang unang nagkaroon ng trabaho sa kanilang magkakapatid at galing sila sa kahirapan. Kaya ang priority nila ay makatulong muna sa pag papa aral sa mga nakababatang mga kapatid o kaya ay tumutulong muna sa mga parents para sa kanilang pang araw-araw na gastusin.

When I used to run a spa.....I had to interview many applicants. Most of them as young as 17 and up to as old as 32. Maybe 6 out of ten candidates would be single mothers. Many of them are between 17-22. Those little love childs. LoL Some of them wouldn't even admit to having a child but I always seem to manage to get the truth out of them. I need the info because often, these single mothers are the most stable or obedient employees owing to the fact that they need a job.

The single women over 30's, I can find them mostly in any Christian Fellowship/mission/Gospel revival BS I can infiltrate everywhere in the 6 cities and municipalities I frequent. Yes, part of my personal entertainment is to go to these places to have a laugh. So if you see a lone bearded fellow with crossed arms trying to stifle a giggle with his hands. That's me.

In these religious congregations are many-many-many single or recently single women. Mga iniwanan, nabalo, niloko ng mga ka-relasyon. Alam ko kasi tuwing may sharing. 5 out of 10 women sa mga group sharing usually ay single for many of the same reasons.

It's a veritable hunting ground for financially successful but lonely single women.

But then, there was an article I read. Na ito palang mga Born-Again na babae...pinagbabawalang makipag relation sa di kapwa Born-Again. Eh karamihan ng nag born again mga babae at ang mga lalaking nag born again madalas dahil din sa girl nila kung kayat kulang ang born again na lalake na pupuno sa pangangailangan ng mga babae. Kaya ako andun.

Anyway. I flipped channels and landed in 700Club kasi may interview na magandang chick and the topic was about why she remains single. And I was astounded as to the reasons these women were giving in the interviews. The main answers were "If God wills it" or "If God gives me the man he wants for me and if not then I'll be happy just to serve the lord"! OMFG! The Born-Again Meisters created a new justification for their dilemna!

they want to reach their goals.help their family and be free to do the things they like.
some reasons why they remain single.

my german word para dyan, "takotsauten"

its better to be single if your partner will make your nightmares come true heheh, but i think it always takes two to tango :)

kung maliit... better to stay single ,, kung malaki go lang ng go..

agree, marami akong kilalang ganyan..

sa tingin ko option... kasi una muna family nila bago ang kaligayahan... or career muna kaysa love/marriage...

ako personally no.2 ang sagot ko. ganun talaga ako eh. plus naubos ang years ko being faithful to someone na hindi ko napangasawa....i deeply regret those wasted years....sigh. sana yung times na yon nagpakasaya na lang ako at nagfocus on improving myself and my life.

Ang hirap nga ano?  Pero if you've been happy don't regret na lang...happy ka naman yata during those times eh.  Eh di  ka naman nag-iisa, maraming ganyan... ehehehe.

Good luck na lang for the next.

wala yata yung by choice...may mga babae kasi na mas gustong single sila.
happy sila sa ganun at wala silang pinagsisisihan.

canditae for cancer of the ____...

usually successful careers. good example ay yung mga doctor na babae. at the age of 25, they're still in medical school. at the age of 30, career height at its peak pa lang. kaya late or bihira mag-asawa sila. ask me, i know a lot of them. puro pa magaganda.

im sure maganda din po kau...

pa add man ako fb 

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Yung iba naman ay meron silang stable jobs and they work on a shifting basis kaya pagdating sa bahay ay pagod na at walang time for socialing. Lalo na pag nasa night shift sila, mas pipiliin na lang nilang matulog kaysa maglagalag sa araw or umatend ng parties. Work-home-work lang ang priority nila dahil happy sila sa ganoong set-up kahit single sila.

I dont see anything wrong about a women on her 30s and single
Im 41 and single so whats so bad about it?
Nothing enjoying life