Years spent together vs fear that you might not find someone else Philippines

its time to go if infidelity caused the break up.

---> no matter how many years it counts, in this life you should find your happiness. For me, life is something a person should enjoy. How important is the opinion of other people? For me, what matter most is my opinion. But yes, I also give considerations. So you should let go if you think it will not worth spending your life with that person and you will not be happy anymore.

---> Don't sacrifice your life for the sake of "sayang"! :)

its time to go if infidelity caused the break up. --laugh

but its just part of being humane.. forgiveness is another level of expressing how love revolves with the two people.. kung sabagay, sa iba big deal talaga yan..

in a relationship sometimes you really go through tough times that can't be resolved no matter how you try to work it out and compromise

nasasabi ko lang dahil sa sitwasyon ng kaibigan ko.but at the back of my mind may nagsasabi na ayaw ko din silang maghiwalay.good provider kasi yung guy at mabait sa kanya di siya sinasaktan ng pisikal.mabait din na father sa mga kids.never ko nakita magalit.tahimik lang.

If you are in a relationship for 5 yrs or more and it starting to turn out sour or u kinda notice that's there is no spark,communication, or the feeling is slowly fading away then it's one of the sign that either both of you need a break up or time away from each other.  You will need time to think whether u should stay because you loved her dearly or move on and find someone that you will be happy.

In my opinion, I always tell myself that I only live once! Mas gugustuhin kong habang nabubuhay ako sa mundong ito na at least I tried my best to give love, or tried to please my love ones (although it will be hard to please everyone)  and hopefully that I will somehow get the happiness and love in return.

You can only decide for yourself and there is no right and wrong decision it's all coming from yourself.. listen to your heart and let your mind guide you.. suggestion from here or ur friends etc. will be helpful to balance it out but ask yourself what makes you happy? are you happy right now ? I agree sayang ang pinagsamahan but dka ba manghihinayang kung sa kabila ng lahat ay d ka maligaya sa piling nya? What if there is someone out there for you sayang din ba yong chance in meeting her? ask urself those question and hope u will find the right answer... best of luck on ur decision :)

pag nanakit na guy, pag hindi na nagprovide, pag wala na talaga direction o patunguhan... bitayin na! pero kung lahat naman nagampanan nya at masaya asawa/partner/etc bat pa kailangan? minsan may mali na kailangan unawain kahit mali. buhay nila yun/dun sila masaya..ikaw pa ba maging simula at dahilan?

Kung di na masaya ang isa sa inyo better let go na lang... Wag ng panghinayangan yung haba ng relasyon nyo. Moving forward ika nga.

 

pero kung ako yan, manghihinayang ako ah! pero kung di ka na masaya sa kanya, it's time to let go..

maam jmx..depende sa reason kung bakit di na masaya.kung di na siya kuntento,kung nagtitiis lang kami at wala ng maibubuga...mag-usap na lang kung anong magandang gawin.

Sabi mo manghihinayang ka?

Thank you, thank you ha....

It really doesn't matter how long have you been together.. saka na lang kwentahin yan kapag uugod-ugod na ang isang couple. Ang importante yung quality ng pagsasamahan.

oo nga.. manghihinayang ako.. pero kung masakit na nadudulot.. let go na..

Eh pano kung nag paalam na sya sa'yo? Tapos ikaw naman hinabol sya at niyakap mo sya ng patalikod tapos sya inaalis ang kamay mo, pano na yan?

ha? edi iwan ko na siya lalo pag ganon..hehe

make it work. talkand discuss your issues.  don't just let go.

Hehehe... Batukan mo kaya sabay sabihan mo ng maarte ka!

haha! naku, wag na.. baka lalong umalis.. mabuti pang hayaan ko nalang siya ..hehe

Hay nako.... Di nya kayang i-let go.

haha.. hayaan ko na nga siya eh.. hehe.. let go na yun! haha

Let go na... you're just prolonging your agony to be happy. hindi ka pa naman siguro katandaan/lola age para sabihin mong wala ka nang chance makahanap ng iba.. :D like me, i had a 6year relationship, and then i left and after few months, i was engaged and got married with my husband within 9months of being in a relationship and now we have a daughter and i am happy!

you'll never know baka kakahinayang mo sa 5 years e mas manghihinayang ka in the end kung lumipas na ung chances mo to really find that happiness.