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HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF IT'S TIME TO LET GO OR MOVE ON?

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Ipaglalaban mo ba ang ang relasyon nyo na unti unti ng nanlalamig at napupunta na sa hiwalayan?

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posted April 27, 2012 01:48PM
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RIDDANCE (pagkawala)  emoticon
noun

1.the act or fact of clearing away or out, as anything undesirable.
2.relief or deliverance from something.

HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF IT'S TIME TO  LET GO OR MOVE ON?
 
  • When it seems that you don't know your partner anymore
  • You have your separate goals in life
  • You love each other. You ONLY love each other and the interest/the passion/ the "spark" is gone
  • Your commitment is the only thing binding the two of you
  • One is stubborn, the other is insensitive
  • You are not happy anymore, because the other one has his/her own "happiness" to rely with.
  • You want to grow as a person and as a partner, however the other would like to stay on his/her level of immaturity and just remain on his/her own perception of maturity
  • Physical romance is only what's left on your relationship
  • There are no quality conversations
  • Your partner trust "material things" rather than simply having faith and relying on God's blessings
  • Your partner won't listen anymore and wont subject on the authority of the husband
  • 3rd Party (Of course, unless your an idiot)
  • You love God more than your partner, but your partner loves you more than God
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posted April 27, 2012 02:14PM
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"Your commitment is the only thing binding the two of you"

Of all the reasons you have posted,

I would go for that one.

I have always believed that love should only be the only reason why you enter into a relationship.

If love is really gone, there's no point to keep the relationship on.

 

What is love?

Love is that feeling of well beingness as being together.

It shouldn't even be put into contract - that requires signatures.

Love, alone is your own ticket to insurance.

 

 

 

 


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posted April 27, 2012 02:55PM
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i have been on that stage before, even if you love the person , there comes a time that love it aint enough to make the relationship click. separated because we have different goals in life. 

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posted April 27, 2012 10:13PM
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JoshuaTienzo posted on April 27, 2012 01:48PM


HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF IT'S TIME TO  LET GO OR MOVE ON?
 
  • When it seems that you don't know your partner anymore
  • You have your separate goals in life
  • You love each other. You ONLY love each other and the interest/the passion/ the "spark" is gone
  • Your commitment is the only thing binding the two of you
  • One is stubborn, the other is insensitive
  • You are not happy anymore, because the other one has his/her own "happiness" to rely with.
  • You want to grow as a person and as a partner, however the other would like to stay on his/her level of immaturity and just remain on his/her own perception of maturity
  • Physical romance is only what's left on your relationship
  • There are no quality conversations
  • Your partner trust "material things" rather than simply having faith and relying on God's blessings
  • Your partner won't listen anymore and wont subject on the authority of the husband
  • 3rd Party (Of course, unless your an idiot)
  • You love God more than your partner, but your partner loves you more than God


yan..  emoticon pero ngayon happy na.. may mga kapalit ang mga luhang nawala sakin..  emoticonemoticon

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posted April 29, 2012 05:41PM
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ang isang relasyon na binuo ng pag-ibig ay maaaring magkaroon pa ng pangalawang pagkakataon.
ipagdadasal ko na maliwanagan ang isip namin at makita ang kahalagaahan ng aming relasyon.
pero kung sa kabila noon ay di ko na siya nakikitaan ng interes o respeto.siguro magandang bumitiw na.
hanggang may natitira pa akong respeto sa sarili ko at may lakas pa ako para bumangon...hikbi..

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posted April 29, 2012 10:12PM
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when the fire in the relationship is gone.thats the time to move on.

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posted April 29, 2012 10:19PM
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every person deserves to be happy. kung wala ng love tama lang mag-let go na lang. mahirap yung magtitiis pipilitin i-work out when the other person has given up the relationship.
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posted April 29, 2012 10:43PM
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kapag nagcool off kayo at ganun pa din sitwasyon kapag nagsama kayo uli....
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posted April 30, 2012 08:47AM
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Enzoo posted on April 27, 2012 02:55PM

i have been on that stage before, even if you love the person , there comes a time that love it aint enough to make the relationship click. separated because we have different goals in life. 


Same situation. Sometimes you have to make a sacrifice for yourself and also for the other person. Otherwise "magtitiisan" lang kayo at hindi talaga magiging happy sa relationship - just because magkaiba talaga kayo.

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posted May 9, 2012 01:04PM
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Madali lang naman yun malaman, only, we just refuse to see the truth that- it's time.

Pero wala naman kasi perfect na tao diba? so might as well tanggapin mo yung kaya mong tanggapin.

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posted May 9, 2012 01:21PM
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pag kahit anong kiss and make up , still the same pa rin ang sitwasyon. parang di na maganda magpatuloy pa ang relasyon.

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posted May 11, 2012 06:29PM
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When after several years he still has no solid plans or actions to take the relationship to the next level?
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posted May 28, 2012 03:55AM
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When the pain is more than joy while you're together. When you stop believing na magbabago pa siya at di ka na masaya sa ginagawa mo.


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posted May 28, 2012 10:33AM
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If after so..so..so..many years.. you've forgiven him over and over again and you've tried to bring the back the lost trust it caused you..despite lahat ng heartaches mo.. paulit ulit lang din naman na niloloko ka at parang feeling nya di mo sya kayang iwan...eh..it's really time to let go..
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posted May 28, 2012 10:40AM
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You have your separate goals in life.

You want to grow as a person and as a partner, however the other would like to stay on his/her level of immaturity and just remain on his/her own perception of maturity
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posted May 28, 2012 09:35PM
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pag ang pagmamahalan nyo e parang naghahawak ka ng isang toy baloon, its tendency is always to fly away when you lose your grip, thats the time you better let it go.

better choose to hold a ball instead, kasi kahit ihagis mo yan pataas, tendency nyan pabalik syo ulit..love someone whose tendency is to hold your heart back.


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posted May 29, 2012 10:39PM
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It's time to move on kung wala ng feelings ang isa sa inyo.
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posted May 31, 2012 01:27PM
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panahon nang makipagkalas kung nararamdaman mo na wala na siyang pagmamahal na pinaparamdam sayo..pag wala na siyang respeto na pinapakita sayo at pag tinuturing ka na lang nya na isang basahan..dinadaan daandaanan na parang
di ka nya nakikita..
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posted May 31, 2012 05:57PM
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dappy posted on May 31, 2012 01:27PM
panahon nang makipagkalas kung nararamdaman mo na wala na siyang pagmamahal na pinaparamdam sayo..pag wala na siyang respeto na pinapakita sayo at pag tinuturing ka na lang nya na isang basahan..dinadaan daandaanan na parang
di ka nya nakikita..


magpreno ka naman...

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posted May 31, 2012 06:00PM
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direct to the point lang talaga and decided na makipag kalas ,meron kasing iba din na urong sulong, bibigyan pa ng chance ang sarili na makita kong talaga bang ipagpatuloy ang relasyon .

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posted May 31, 2012 06:11PM
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pasensya na nadala kasi.hehe...pag-ayaw na sabihin na..sa atin kasi nagpapakiramdaman pa nakakatawa.
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