One thing that I learned a couple of weeks ago: "It doesn't matter how bad another person could be, he might have a reason(no matter how simple and pathetic that is) to act in such a way towards other people. He can be good to you, as long as you treat him well... what's my point?
Here - If it doesn't concern you, don't get involved. Coz a person may have his own personality towards another, but has the ability to treat another person in a totally different manner. Example, you behave well whenever you are infront of your parents, relatives or loved ones. you behave in a totally different behaviour when you are with other people besides who I have mentioned.
Does that mean you have split personality??? NO, it only means you are normal, coz a normal human being reacts appropriately to a situation. Therefore, it is safe to say that the way a person acts or behaves depends on the situation, the environment, or the people that they're with.
I hope you guys will get my point.
i love your post sancho, its the same thing with the concept of having respect to other people, not because your are not acting like that to other specially in a certain occurances, it doesnt mean that you have like a "split personality" --- the words doesnt concern you, then dont get involve works for me either too ---, but even people see you as being they still tend to tell something to you, negative positive etc,,,worst is accuse. so in reality, being always put predicaments..but people who are matured always know how to show ethics =D
Thank you for liking my message. Its hard to be accused and judged by other people who think they knew you better or thinks that they know better than you do...
People tend to insult other people, call them names, just because they don't like 'em... but hey, if the feeling is mutual, to be honest that hated person may think of the same about you too... the world is round... no points no deadlocks, no angles, everything is made equal.
You may have not thought of it yet, but if you start hating one person, that person might have been hating you too without you knowing it. Karma doesn't even have anything to do with it. It's just that we are all created with the same capacity of thinking. Remember that no matter how annoying the person can be, he still has brains and he would know how to get even if he doesnt have anything better to do.