if someone you love always hurt you.. Philippines

relate. minsan alam mo na sa sarili mo ang sagot: "enough"
but there's something inside you that tells you, normal lang siguro yung pagdaanan ng isang relasyon yung ganito, na mahal mo sya kaya magtitiis ka hanggang magbago sya. kung iiwan mo naman sya, kailangan may sapat kang dahilan para gawin yun, which in your case, hindi mo naman matawag na SAPAT na dahilan para iwan mo sya...

planning to leave, is so much easier said than done...

Para sakin mahirap yung you are expecting that someday he will change. so what if he didn't and you're old now or will be harder for you to move out?

I think it has to be like, 'Me', will 'I' be able to stay with this kind of person? Am 'I' just going to wait for the day that he'll change? Why do 'I' keep on complaining about him when it could be easier for me to just accept things?

kasal na ba kayo bro?
mas mahirap syempre kung kasal na

well.. it takes two to tanggo ik nga
pero kung isa ka na lang na sumasayaw
maghanap ka na ng ibang kasayaw c',)

well, could it REALLY "be", EASIER???

Yes. Just accept the reality that there is much greater possibility that he's not gonna change, not that you stop on hoping.

either stay with the relationship or get out. at least try, though.

eh mahirap nga po yan lalo na kapag mahal mo yung tao eh... ang hirap makakuha ng motivation.. tanong mo pa kay TS...

You have to love yourself also.

Kung lagi ka nalang nakukunsumi diyan sa tao na yan ikaw din naman magsa-suffer makikita ang wrinkles
haha

hahaba ang mukha

If someone you love is always hurting you and after many years you are still with him/her then 'you must be Dumb or Stupid!'

let go kung hindi worth it kung bakit ka niya sinasaktan..
pero dapat i-examine din natin sarili natin kung bakit tayo nasasaktan..

pareho kayo may prinsipyo and if ito ang paiiralin, magbabanga kayo. the best is to for both to be humble enough to sit down, apologive and talk about how to solve the issue

Do you feel like you've always get hurt by every man in your life? then there is something that you should work on within yourself. Instead na magself-pity ka bigyan mo ng solusyon ang problema.

as in mag aral ng taekwondo o kung fu? para sa kanya?

Life's too short...spend it wisely.......specially with quality people.....not dun sa mga tao that doesnt value you as a person...you're always worth it...dont settle for anything less....

yah tingin ko maganda din yang sinabi mo kasi malimit sa tao walang tyaga or doesnt go dig deeper within ourselves 

Ganyan talaga, kasi pag walang pait, walang tamis.

let go....................not unless masokista ka ha?

ganun ho kasi nangyayari pag malalim ang pagmamahal mo dun sa tao... tanga or dumb ka na pala sa paningin ng iba pero tuloy ka pa rin.

hindi po ako maka-relate... hndi ko alam ang love... :'(

Just move forward..................... ;)

...really ksher29? Love is everything. Love is many thing. Tulad ng pagmamahal ng magulang mo sayo. Minsan sinasaktan tayo para ipadama ang kanilang pagmamahal.