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ANGER, has no positive benefits in our lives. . . AGREE?

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posted May 16, 2012 10:08PM
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Yes in all aspects of our daily lives, this particular emotion should have no space in order to have a peaceful society. . . Do you agree ?
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posted May 16, 2012 10:26PM
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Maybe we could apply what they call anger management. Because on the contrary, anger surprisingly can be used to provide positive energy to spur as to do something great as in sports and even in business. Notice how some great players do better when angered by something such as a bad call from a referee or being heckled by fans or hurt by another player.... it becomes their rallying point. It is not totally useless, we just have to control it.

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posted May 16, 2012 10:43PM
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i can attest to that, anger does not motivate other people. palamig muna bago magsalita

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posted May 17, 2012 12:08AM
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yes thats true pero mahirap gawin.........di maiiwasan magalit as long na di mapupunta sa away or physical violence

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posted May 26, 2012 08:34PM
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 Anger reduces violence

Although anger often precedes physical violence, it can also be a way of reducingviolence. That's because it's a very strong social signal that a situation needs to be resolved. When others see the signal they are more motivated to try and placate the angry party.

If you're still not convinced that anger might reduce violence, imagine a world without anger where people had no method for showing how they felt about injustice. Might they jump straight to violence?

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posted May 26, 2012 09:06PM
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Actually we also need the so-called Hate in ourselves. . . all is equal eka nga :-)


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posted May 26, 2012 09:17PM
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pwede nating gamitin ang anger to prove a certain point but not to the extent na magsasabi ng negative words.
kaya po nakakaboto ang mga babae ngayon..

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posted May 26, 2012 09:49PM
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May pakinabang din ang galit - KUNG hindi ikaw ang galit.

Angry people are very easy to be manipulated, prone to commit mistakes, has poor judgement and other disadvantageous factor.

So always keep your cool :)
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posted May 26, 2012 10:02PM
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Anger is a natural process in human life as a result of negative stimulus.  Now, how you handle anger is another thing.  Some deal with it positively and others with negative outcomes. On another note, even God got angry with the Israelites.

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posted June 11, 2012 12:10AM
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ANGER,,,, so so so present in the world... eh eh I SEE IT POSITIVELY . . . use it only to get things done or to get your way ... only think first and not hastily use it. . . .
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posted June 11, 2012 12:33AM
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totoo po yan.. pero paano po yung mga taong hinamak, minolistya ng di nakatikim man lang ng hustisya? tulad namin.... aminin ko ang poot sa dibdib ko ay hindi pa po nawawala hanggang ngayun...
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posted June 11, 2012 12:47AM
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yes walang benefit kahit ano... yes kahit sa pag disiplina ng bata!...naawa talaga ako sa mga bata na binubugbog lalo na ng tatay

there are other ways to discipline children than using anger...because if all you cant think of is beating the hell out of your child para tumino please just proceed to killing them...niloloko mo pa yung bata na mahal mo sya...tapos pinapatigil mo na umiyak e panay swing mo ng kawayan..abnoy kaba?.....(observations lang po)

best you can do is lay off people who like to let off steam and throw their weight around...thats why i quit my job,di ako maka timpi sa boss ko kesa mapatay ko pa lumayo nalang ako...

being around hot-headed people is really unhealthy...disturbs your inner peace

ako pag nakaka encounter ng galit na tao....nagiging doble naman ang galit ko....fire vs fire kaya ayaw ko nagagalit or pinoprovoke na magalit

 

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posted June 11, 2012 05:20AM
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Ang poot sa dibdib ko na gawa ng isang kilalang tao, at leader ng isang releheyon. ay di mawala hanggang ngayun. ang pangmomolistya nya sa amin di ko makalimutan. siguro kung hindi po sya pastor at tulad ko din lang sya wala na siguro akong galit. subalit hangad ko ang kapayapaan sa dibdib ko.. sa forum ng Iglesia Ni Cristo and Charice pempingco dun nyo po mababasa kung kanino ako galit. at kung ano ang nangyari sa akin o sa amin ng mga kaibigan ko. Sana po makalimot din ako at matutunan ko syang patawarin.
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posted June 11, 2012 06:00AM
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Anger can lead to violence isnt it?
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posted June 11, 2012 06:13AM
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ReynaldoMartinez posted on May 16, 2012 10:08PM
Yes in all aspects of our daily lives, this particular emotion should have no space in order to have a peaceful society. . . Do you agree ?


I AGREE!!!.. Im sick in a way but I dont feel sorry for myself and I dont like others to pity me... I just live life to the fullest....and negative aura.. is a BIG BIg NO NO for me...

Im happy at all the time and life is much easier when your very optimistic and posses possitive attitude and so much healthier now.

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posted June 12, 2012 12:11AM
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Gregbautista posted on June 11, 2012 05:20AM
Ang poot sa dibdib ko na gawa ng isang kilalang tao, at leader ng isang releheyon. ay di mawala hanggang ngayun. ang pangmomolistya nya sa amin di ko makalimutan. siguro kung hindi po sya pastor at tulad ko din lang sya wala na siguro akong galit. subalit hangad ko ang kapayapaan sa dibdib ko.. sa forum ng Iglesia Ni Cristo and Charice pempingco dun nyo po mababasa kung kanino ako galit. at kung ano ang nangyari sa akin o sa amin ng mga kaibigan ko. Sana po makalimot din ako at matutunan ko syang patawarin.


Nauunawan ko po ang nararamdam mo, kapatid. Ngunit para magsimula ang proseso sa paglunas ng iyong nararamdaman, ang payo ko po ay kausapin yung iyong pastor at ipalaam mo ng mahinahon ang nilalaman ng kalooban mo.  Puwede din po kayo magsama ng isa o dalawa pang miyembro ng simbahan mo sa araw na iyon. Ang mahalaga ay masabi mo sa kanya ang nasa dibdib mo, hindi yung ano man dahilan na kanyang bibitawan o kanyang depensa. Ang pinakamahalaga din payo ko po sa iyo ay ipagdasal mo siya at i alay mo sa ating mahal na Diyos ang iyong kalagayan. Panahon lang po at pagpatwad ang makalunas ng iyong masaklap na karanasan.

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