tamang paraan ng pakikipag break...dapat nga ba? Philippines

kung hindi naman delikado or di naman siya topakin or may sakit sa isip then makipag break up ka in person. pero before doing so, rehearse your lines. or mag isip ka na ng mga pde niyang sabihin or pde mong sabihin.ganun.

show some respect.do it in person.do it slowly.

Breaking up is hard to do. . . .

• Don’t drag it out: As hard as you think breaking up will be, it will be even harder and more painful if you drag the relationship on for longer and then break up. - huwag mo nang patagalin.
• Pick the right time and place: mas okay sa maraming taong place with a little privacy but The point of this story is that when you do decide to break up, pick a time and place that is sensitive to the other person. Don't wait until the holidays or some special event to ruin someone's mood. Give them a little time to deal with things before having to face all of their friends and family. I guess the best, and maybe the only, way to gauge what the right time is for a breakup is to put yourself in the other person's shoes and ask yourself, "How would I feel if I were broken up with at that particular time?"
• Give the person a sense of closure: Sometimes it's clear to both parties that a relationship is headed towards a breakup. In those cases, when the relationship finally does end, there's usually a sense of closure. Many times, however, the breakup comes as a complete shock to the other person. They are left dazed and confused. 
• Space  - After a closure conversation, give the person the space they need to move on with their lives. If you happen to frequent the same venues, find another place to hang for a while so that your ex doesn't have to see you and feel the pain over and over again, especially if you've already started dating someone else. Give and help them a chance to heal.
• Move on with your life  - You made the decision to break up and the closure conversation. Tapos na ang lahat. Stop calling them to chat or going out for coffee together? don't you realize that they probably still have feelings for you? and that by continuing to interact with them in a close personal manner you are stirring up their feelings for you and possibly impeding them from wholeheartedly dating other people?

@ecalmonte :

Pick the right time and place: tuwing after office hour lang daw po pede magkita..oks lang po kaya ang timing?..pagod galing work?..what if i-timing po pag nag-ask ng date yung bf? saka nya i-open up???

Stop calling them to chat - hindi  po magawa agad kasi may utang yung guy...pero hindi na dapat pang patagalin..later na lang singilin..hehehe

@isnyra : not sure sa topak ng guy kasi ng 1st time na nag break,hindi tinanggap...walang reply sa lahat, sa email, sa text, sa chat..kung hindi pa tinawagan, pero wala ngang nangyari..hindi pa rin tinanggap...

@laugh : hmnn, mukhang wala yatang choice,ayaw naman kasi sumagot agad sa ibang way.. try again, meet up ... again?!..haayyss

mas maganda kung personal mong sasabihin.. more luck! :)

para maging fair bigyan mo siya ng advance info then mag set ka ng meeting, isama mo sa advance info yung mga subject na tatalakayin...para mas bongga mag prepare ka ng powerpoint presentation...

ahahaha ..natawa naman ako dito, may powerpoint presentation pa!!

problema lang, kapag sinabi na ang slight details baka hindi na sumipot!..hehehe

pero nagtatanong na nga kung ano ba yung pinaka topic daw ng pag-uusapan..hayysss...ang hirap sagutin din pala pag hindi in person, baka magkasira lang lalo ng wala sa ayos..

 

bf is now asking for a date, samantalahin na ba?..hindi kaya kakasira naman ito ng araw sa kanya, wala kasi cyang idea pa, all he know is there is an important thing to discuss about...naku, baka biglang mang-iwan, pano yung bill sa fud?..ehehehe

pero seriously, ang hirap pala ...sana more inputs pa if pano nyo naman napag-daanan ng ok pa rin kayo in da end

naku, ganyan talaga! haha.. :)) pero ako, nong nakipagbreak ako, tinawagan ko siya.. haha! :)) 

kasi long distance yun eh! 

In person dapat. and sabi nga break it to me gently..

I don't think that it's practical to break up with someone on a dinner date and whatnot.

...I would rather break up with someone over the phone so I won't get to see when he's hurt and vice versa.

count down na ito: 6 counts for personal versus 2 response thru phone...

@AMGScents : nakup, may theme song pa palang maiiwan :(

@jmxstudiosnet : oks sana kung may nararamdamang galit sa part ng gf, madali lang siguro, bagsakan pa ng fone!..hehehe..joke lang

..is just that parang nakikita ng gf na wala na ring patutunguhan ang lahat, actually, 2nd chance na ito, the 1st one was thru text, pero tinanggihan ng guy, tried to fix again pero for the gf, this time, wala pa rin talgang improvement na nangyari..

*mga kasulit, this is for my niece who is very close to me, hindi ko lang kasi naranasan ang ganito, kaya naniniwala ako na experience is da best teacher, kaya your opinions are highly appreciated...sa 1st bf ko kc, bigla lang hind nagpakita, i was happy na with my new one na hubby ko na ngayon :)

better yung meet kayo in person para msabi mo nang personal.di naman maganda thru fb lang or text.

kung ang babae ang makikipagbreak mas okay kung sa place na maraming tao tapos may kasama yung babae na limang freinds na nasa tabi tabi lang..depende kasi kung yung lalaki eh mahal na mahal yung gf niya .baka di matanggap at kung anong gawin..ang hirap makipag break pag ganun.pero kung ok namang mag-isp yung lalaki at matatanggap niya yung disisyon nung babae mas madali ang makipag break.yung babae kasi nakakakilala sa bf niya kung paano ihahandle yang ganyang sitwasyon.

Just be honest on your feelings.. tell to her/him personally in the right place and time. Listen/watch on her reactions(violent).. it could be the hardest thing to do but it's the right thing to do. -ewan ko kung kaya ng power ko

sabagay, yung magpaka-totoo ka ang da best move so far, ganun din naman ang ending..break-ups na..lalo't desidido ang taong gagawa nito...

naku ma'am, nag-break up na po ba ng tuluyan?...

kasi naman po para sa akin, iba pa rin kapag personal mo itong sinabi..pwera na lang siguro po kung halimbawa nagalit na ako sa kanya dahil kitang-kita ko na may ka-kiss na syang iba...!..pag call ko sa kanya, simple lang sasabihin ko..'break na tayo, no need to expain kasi nakita ko na ang lahat"..sabay baba ng fone...hehehe...depende po talaga kasi sa situation :)

well,they break up in person...nakatulong po ng malaki ang mga sinabi dito ng ka-TS..
salamat po sa lahat, i respect your opinions, siguro nga tama ka, depende sa sitwasyon, kung may mabigat na dahilan, mas ok lang na wag na lang magpakita in person..para safe...

..if there might be somebody out there still struggling kung paanong paraan ng pakikipag-break...hope makatulong din ito..

dapat lang na di magpaligoy ligoy pa at straight to the point kasi di naman laru laro ang relationship ehhh.

Kung magbbreak-up din naman lang why does it have to be in public? for formality ba yun? what if hindi matanggap nung isa? may mga tao na very weak when it comes to handling depressions. What if mag-iiyak siya dun, ok lang sayo? what if worse pa ang gawin niya?

Even when the other person couldn't accept the break-up, if you're really decided then i don't see anything difficult about it. Just say so and then do your own thing move on with your life, if you have to change your number to avoid that person then do so. It's always up to you maybe you (or the person that is the subject of the TS topic) are not yet ready to let go of this person, you should make up your mind, stand for what you really want in this relationship.

jmx..kawawa naman yung tao..may pinagsamahan din naman sila..at least give him dignity..
hello wrong number pala..hehe..