i never said that i love you Philippines

Moving this thread to Personal, Friends, Family & Romance Category

thanks moderator. still i m not yet learning how categorization works here. how about you sir, have you experienced this one?

na maling akala pala mommy lairs. minsan yung mututal understanding kasi misunderstood nang isa.

exactly fafa. or it's better to say, there was a miscommunication in their communication ( a lesson learned from my fil 40 class in college discussing semantics and syntax which i think is beriberiberigud at aplikabol sa lahat...)

meron ka bang naranasan ngayon na ganyan mommy lairs? just curious.

fafa farang meh alam kah...

curious lang ako mommy lairs, parang na in love ka kasi, the question is whom>?

hahahah... alam ko may alam ka... spill the beans ... come on fafa you can duwit...

kaya nga ako nagtanong para ikaw ang mag spill the beans ehh.

bagay kau mami ni boss enzoo... hehehe

nakow, ito na naman tayo sa bagay- bagay na iyan. hahaha... sakit sa bangs

hehehe,mommy lairs bakit sakit sa bangs? hehehehe,kanta ka na lang ng i said i loved you but i lied. ke michael bolton yun.

uy, may kakilala akong ganito..kaya nakuha mo ma'am ang atensyon ko...let me share:

nagsabi naman ng 'i love you'..pero once lang..siguro dahil lumiligaw pa eh..more on paramdam lang ..kamusta, pangungulit..etc..

sa una, akala mo, may pagmamahal pero be observant and find out kung ano ang masasabi nya about sa commitments and other aspects na dapat na pinag-uusapan sa isang relationship..

to handle this? well,naging open yung girl sa totoo nyang hanap sa isang relationship, but since wala cyang nakuhang positibong sagot, nothing a girl can do but to accept it, na failure ang buhay-pag-ibig nya..hehe

how did you manage to get back on your feet and breathe again?..advice ko na lang siguro, know your worth, para mas madali mong malaman at magawa yung next move mo..

why do you think these things still happens despite the modernity and globalization (kumu- current events?) well, siguro kasi yung tao ay very vulnerable....

reminder: iwasan po sana natin ang OFF TOPIC.

 

have you ever had a relationship na akala mo yun na iyon?

yes. before. maybe 7 years ago.

iyon pala ay magkaiba pala kayo ng pagkakaintindi sa mga pahayag ng bawat isa?

not quite. ako kasi yung tipong torpe, mahiyain. kaclose ko sya before.. alam kong may feelings din sya para sakin but takot magpahayag kung ano ang nararamdaman. then nalaman ko nalang na bf na nya yung officemate nya.

how did you find out?

nalaman ko sa common friend namin maybe after a week or two nang naging sila.  to think na close kami, hindi nya nagawang sabihin sakin na may naliligaw sa kanya & sinagot na nya.

how did you handle this?

umiwas ako sa kanila. even sa common friend namin.

how did you accept this?

but di din naman nagtagal, di ko rin sila matiis. its better na  friends kaming lahat than idisregard ung friendship namin. kaso etong bf naman nya,  inutusan sya ng bf nya na iwasan ako. malamang takot dahil mas matagal kaming magkakilala nitong gurl & close kami. blinock ng bf nya yung number & email ko. insecure ba na maagaw ko yung girl nya?

how did you manage to get back on your feet and breathe again? 

so there it goes. wala akong magagawa. kung saan sila masaya suportohan ko sila. masaya na din ako para sa friend ko. sa ngayon wala na akong balita sa kanila.

why do you think these things still happens despite the modernity and globalization (kumu- current events?)

dunno. maybe end of the world na  BOOM! hehehe

please share and there may be a lot of people out there who oare asking the same questions right now and in need of answers that you have already proven and tested... thanks and godbless

Madami naman kasi tao na madali lang magsabi ng i love you.. kagaya ko.

Ang importante kasi dun para hindi mo naman siya mamisinterpret (dahil baka naman ganun lang talaga siya) ay yung wag ka agad magpapadala unless yung tao na yun mismo sinasabi niya ang intentions niya at pareho naman yung actions niya sa sinasabi niya.

I've never been into that situation matibay ang walls ko tungkol sa love love na yan.

tunay ngang nakapanghihina ang pag-ibig diba? pero i wonder y are there some people that we can say assuming eh sobra kung magreact ung tipong suicidal

even if a guy said i love you to you, it's not an assurance that he loves you for real.
even if he wears your wedding ring.. may mga girls na hindi yan papansinin yang singsing na yan.

TS, yun nga related yang sinabi mo sa how to break up the proper way? ang tanong ay makakayanan mo ba makita na hindi kayang tanggapin ng isang tao yun??

@jmx, sarap kasi magsabi ng ily lalo na you will hear ily2 back,.. pero there are people kasi na puro takers lang, meron din namang mga tao na giver and hindi inaalala ang sarili, maryoon din namang expectant na assuming na imimirror ng person ung actions nila

ily is the phrase that i can say is the most abused phrase nowadays. too bad i m sorry doesnt count.

kaya mninsan hindi dsapat assuming. better if you ask the right questions.

maybe you never asked that question earlier to him or some sort..kasi usually magasasalita ng i love u* kahit nagsisinungaling onced they were asked 

i know some couple na nagkahiwalay din kasi nung magkaroon sila ng relationship they were both problematic and shares the same longings but they got that feeling wrong at the end.. nangyari kasi sa kanila parang yung longings for comfort nila disguised them as being in love though they never said to each other that phrase.