Paano ba i-comfort ang friend ko na girl from break up? Philippines

all you have to do is be there when she needs your company and listen..

tama!

kung close friend mo yan pwede mo sya payuhan kahit hindi nya hinihingi...i mean for malasakit lang..tell her lahat naman ng joys and pains e lumilipas so this pains she is having right now will also pass by.

i treat mo sa restaurant hehehe... no string attached ha hehehe

and go enchanted kingdom...

be a good listener...yun lang..

advise if she only ask..as long as nanjan ka lang sa tabi nya habang in pain, oks na yun & don't expect anything from her in return, baka ikaw naman ang masaktan, ok?

wag ka na rin magbigay pa ng negative comments against her bf, remember, minahal pa rin nya yun kahit pano kaya nga nya naging bf eh..pag may nasabi cyang negatives about her situation, give suggestions 'if she ask' kesa gatungan pa yung bagay na nagbigay sa kanya ng pain :)

Talagang walang ibang madarama kundi pains sa simula lang yan. But just tell her to pray lang lagi pasasaan ba't makakarecover din sya bro. 

ill ask her out inom kami ng tanduay ice ... "kampay" ... congratulation ! .... party party!

tama yung sinabi ni guitartrix.. prayer lang ang katapat nyan.. syempre, normal lang na maging mahina pa rin sya kahit sabihin mo na magpray sya.. so d best thing u can do.. samahan mo sya magpray.. and tell her to write down her prayers as well.. (katulad nung mga petition letters sa church) gagaan ang pakiramdam nya for sure... and long term ang effect nito. u can also send/give her comforting songs... :) 

piso lang katapat nyan. text.

text mo ko, ako na bahala mag comfort sa kanya. hehe.

bad ako nu?

sabihin mo na andito lang naman ang balikat mo kung kelalngan nya... all you have to do is to listen... and understand

ganito lang nakikita kong magandang kapuntahan nyan: http://youtu.be/HY0cWaYwqM8?t=41s

Pakinggan mo lang siya habang magrant siya o ano.
(Magfeedback ka din, di lang basta makinig syempre.)

treat her to her favorite drink, surprise her with little things (random food) that you think would make her happy.

Take them out with you for a good time to get their ex out of their mind.
Let them get all their anger out and Give your friend a hug.
Comfort food - ice cream, chocolate, Mac n cheese, potatoes stuff like that.
& you'd be a great friend for doing that!

chance mo na yan tol! sure hit yan!

basta yayain mo sya lagi lumabas, pasyal2 etc. ipakita mong importante ka sakanya..mafofall na sa iyo yan..

kase sabi mo naman gusto mo sya di ba?pero sabi nya til friends ka lang daw?

patunayan mo ngayon na karapat dapat ka ngayon sakanya mula ngayon..

good luck bro!

yakapin mo hahahahahhaahahahahah

She's asking you to go out, it's a sign that she needs your company and also a good sign that she's comfortable with you. Best way to do is genuinely show your concern to her by patiently listening to her stories (includes hinanakit) and giving unbiased advice.

But never assume and never expect in return that she will love you more than a friend... me cases kasi na nmmisinterpret ng guy na love na din sya ng girl dahil nga they already go out and she shared her stories... in the end masasaktan lang ung guy.

Knowing that you're interested with her, hwag mo muna isingit ung panliligaw mo, let her broken heart healed first... mahirap po kc maging panakit butas ka lang..

Pre... tutulungan kita... halata naman na mahal mo sya... bweno... eto ang mga payo ko...

- gawin mo lahat ng tamang paraan para di sya malungkot... para di nya maalala yung xbf nya...

- never mong ibibida sarili mo sakanya na parang ikaw ang karapat dapat(Wag muna)... ang priority mo is tulungan syang makalimot, at gawin mo yun as friend...

- mamasyal kayo... nood sine... show to her na lagi kang andyan sakanya lalo na ngayon...

- kung may sense of humor ka mas ok...gamitin mo yun ng tama for her...

 

pag nagawa mo ng tama yan.. congrats! nakuha mo na atensyon nya... kapag sigurado ka ng naka move on na sya... magtapat ka na... maging totoo ka sa bawat bibitiwan mong salita... pero sa huli... di ko alam magiging response nya sayo at sa sasabihin mo kaya... isipin mong mabuti bago mo gawin... pwedeng sa pag tatapat mo iwasan ka na nya... pwedeng mahal ka din nya... pwedeng kaibigan ka lang talaga...yun lang... paalam!

... just be good and available?
---> yung friend nga namin nung broken hearted ang taga gising para pumasok sa work ay nasa Guam pa or Australia. Yung lagi naman nyang kausap yung nasa California. Ako naman lagi ko din syang kinakausap sa text at sa FB. Ngayon okay na sya... matino na isip nya, may mahal ng iba. hahaha.

ganyan lang po yan, lilipas din.

libangin mo sa maraming bagay na di siya mapag -isa ,but you also have to give her sound advice.

Be good to her, just listen. After that, give an a good advice. Recreations will do. :)