Sabi nila "If you can't save the RELATIONSHIP, atleast save your PRIDE"- Philippines

True! but if you are taken as an option, why not make yourself the priority? Want to know how? see girlgetsringhelp blog

if proven as an option, para ano pa at gawin mong priority cya?

it would really much hurting pa on your part kung 'toy' ang tingin sa iyo..past time, shock absorber or kung anupaman yan...wake up!..bigyan nyo na lang po ng konting pagpapahalaga ang sarili para matutunan din kayong pahalagahan (in return) ng mga taong naka-paligid sa inyo :)

The only priority is ang anak mo kung may anak ka na. Pero in a relationship, i think your priority are your principles.

wag ka magpakatanga sa taong hindi ka naman kayang pahalagahan..ryt?

magtira ka ng love para sa sarili mo

I am not an option, I am the only choice.

JOke lang... my neurotransmitters are not working properly. hehehe

<pls excuse my comment>

its okay to be an option if in the end the person will realize that you are the utmost priority.

Sa tagal ng panahon, ngayon ko lng narealize na even if you've given your best shot sa relationship nyo, one way or the other, if the other person is not really committed at feeling obligasyon lang kami na dapat nyang intindihin, talagang it will never work out...Why would I waste my time sa taong di marunong magpahalaga? Might as well ubusin ko ang energy, panahon ko at pagmamahal ko sa mga anak ko..

bakit tayo magpapa option kung pwede naman tayong maging priority .

mas masarap magmahal dun sa taong binibigyan ka ng priority
kasya nag ttiyaga ka dun sa isang taong, pag may kailngan ka tsaka ka susuuin.

It's Ok, I'm not a priority, I'm an option :))

wala namang pong award ang pagiging option.

sabagay opinion ninyo po yan.

i respect.

agree! 

-ah eh...pwede po kayang subukan muna, at least isa ka sa option (samantalahin dahil wala pa syang final decision?).  Well, syempre it depends on the situation...but if it comes to love... you need to...at least try to fight for it.  But if it's really not yours, at least you tried.  Kung nag-try ka tapos nag-work... di mas okay yon. hehehe.  Ikaw ang winner.

kwitis lang kasi di fireworks..ibig sabihin pagdating sa ere..plop..di pumutok..
ganun ka pag ikaw ay isang option lang..

trulalu yan,katangahan naman kung he/she makes your priority pero in the end hindi ka naman pala ang first choice