Pag single MOM/DAD ka ba mahirap ka na makakita ng Right Guy/Girl para sayo?? Philippines

there is always another person that can be called ideal, in my term,not perfect, kasi kung magxpect ka ng perfect partner, baka madissapoint ka lang. just lower the standard a bit.

Huwag ka nalang kasi mag expect para hindi masaktan. Loving someone shouldn't always have to be expected the same in return.. para hindi ka madisappoint.

wala naman kasi perfect o right, dapat ang hanap nyo companion

nandun na wag expect... pero d mu naman maiiwasan kc ng bibigay ka rin... so you want something in return.

hehe ok po kung ganun ka maging matatag ka para makabangon ka for every failure.

just let it come to you and do not go looking for it...

Tama sila, expect nothing and appreciate everything.

In God's time and will, may darating sa'yo... believe me.

"All good things come to those who waits"

meron kasing iba na gustong hanapin ng hanapin, tapos kong meron na mahanap, di pa rin masatisfied kasi me ineexpect , then madissapoint lang.

sinabi mo pa ang hirap na magtiwala sa lalaki.. lalo single mom ka.. alam na nila my anak ka.. ang ibang guys sex lang habol hindi totoong pagmamahal.. naexperience ko na to, kaya ko nasasabi... nagkabf ako b4, sa  una lang masaya, pero habang tumatagal hindi na... dahil hindi talaga sure si lalaki dahil nga may anak ako..sa huli pala hindi nya kayang maging ama sa anak ko... at isa pa hindi tanggap ng parents nya dahil lang sa my anak ako.. haizt... ilang times na nangyari sakin,wala pa rin ko kadala dala... 

gusto ko lang naman yung mahalin ako at mamahalin anak ko... hindi lang naman sex ang nagpapaikot sa isang relasyon!

 

Just tell yourself.Its their lost not yours. Well-experience single parent are more responsible comparable to literally single. When youre alone and longing for companion. Just look back from the past and remember all the bad things they have done to you when youre still in relationship. By that you will never try to have one again. Just live your life alone but not actually alone coz you have a kid. Im not hypocrite saying it will be fun being alone but it will be a nightmare to be with somebody who will always break your heart and become a burden to you.

 

Life is so beautiful to focus on a relationship that is not meant to be. So many things to prioritize than a relationship which will never give you joy.

Korek ka jan, enzoo... we people kasi minsan hindi inaanalyze yun present situation natin. Pag ganito situation, first, alamin mo kung talagang gusto mo ba companion. and first things to consider is your children, kung acceptable ba dun sa tao na yun.  yun situation mo.... lay your cards. it's take a lot of patience and understanding iconsider mo sa sarili mo, kasi yun tao na yun, the fact na alam nila situation mo pero, they still proceed pa din, meaning acepted nila. And If you're not sure about that person and searching ka pa ng iba, don't be involved with that person yet para walang masasaktan and hindi ka din madissappoint sa decision mo

kaya nga ,tama yan, lay all your cards on the table para magkaalaman na kaagad but dont take it seriously muna , just let the relationship or whatever you two have blossom and take it from there.

tama ka sexyalex666, mahirap magtiwala sa mga lalaki.... you have to be wise sa pagpili din. in a sense, isang lang ask mo sa sarili mo, ano bang contribution ng taong 'to sa buhay? it's hard to find a person na talagang magmamahal sa'yo ng totoo. payo ko lang, don't give too much love,  pakita at paramdam mong may priority ka with or without that person, para sila alam nila ano rules mo sa buhay. It's either they work it out with you or not, serious ba or not. We should learned our lesson in the past. Maraming din kasi factor bakit hindi nagwowork mga relationship sa tulad natin pero in a long run matututunan din natin yun, kung anu yun, you'll know it ikaw makaka alam nun.... kasi iba iba takbo ng buhay natin. as for me,  i play my rules at stable and happy ako sa life.

You'll meet a real one for yourself soon.... meron jan, believe me.

hindi naman meron pa din dyan

ganun kaya ako..sa kakahanap ko, di pa rin ko satisfied..may kulang pa rin..

Message appended on July 16, 2012 08:27PM

may dumating nga..pero di pa rin ko satisfied, may kulang pa rin...

habang tumatagal kasi,doon mo nalalaman real attitude ng bawat isa!..

 

minsan, kailangan wag natin hanapin yun kulang, macontent ka at appreciate what you have. Kasi we ask and look kung ano yun gusto natin sa sarili. pero have we thought if ever may partner ka nga hindi din kya sya nag iisip tulad ng inisip mo. acceptance lang yan. patience, understanding and compromise para mawork-out yun relationship. Pero if talagang wala sa kanya yun hinahanap mo,  buti humiwalay ka na lang. Sabi nga maganda lang sa umpisa pag nagtagal daming ng problema and real attitude comes out.... maganda nga yun eh, pag usapan nyo maging open kau make some list na ayaw nyo, exhange notes, then see if willing kau mag adjust sa isa't isa.

This is what i learn and still a good guidance just like to share lang po:

Should:   never expect; never demand; never assume

Know:   your limits; where to stand; your role

Dont:    get affected; get jealous; get paranoid

Just go with the flow and stay happy

There are no such guarantees in life in this matter. If the guy/girl makes you happy; made you imagine grow old with him/her then don't let him/her passes by.. he/she is the one.

May na-imagine na nga ako eh.. tsk

depende siguro.. sabi nga, makakahanap ka din ng talagang katapat mo.. tiwala lang.. hehe

marami diyan na available

- what you should consider is your anak

- tatangapin ba niya ang bago mong partner?

- how will this affect your anak emotionally and phsycologically

Siguro mararamdaman mo na mahirap nga humanap kung most of your time and your mind is focused or always looking for someone.. what if i-set-aside mo muna yung kakahanap sa guy and divert your attention on other things?