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posted July 28, 2012 03:45PM
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Saw this question on YAHOO! Would you forgive a cheater?

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posted July 28, 2012 04:05PM
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a cheater will always be a cheater. so, no.

cheating is a form of lying. when that person lies, even it's just small white lie, it's still lying and therefore, can become a very big lie over time.

that person is easily forgiven but it's definitely hard to regain trust.
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posted July 28, 2012 04:18PM
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Who cheated? Me. I forgive myself many many times over.
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posted July 28, 2012 04:18PM
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Not all men do cheat. Some may have acceptable reason; perhaps he is not quite happy at home so he look elsewhere to fill the void. Men are just polygamous by nature. Therefore, just leave him alone dahil gusto lang niyang magkaroon ng sideline, pero hindi naman niya pababayaan ang kanyang pamilya. Nangyayari iyan ngayon at justifiable dahil mas maraming babae ang hindi magkakaroon ng asawa dahil kulang ang bilang ng lalaki para sa bawat babae (hindi dapat maging maramot ang babae sa kanyang asawa). If you are the one who feel cheated, just keep on evaluating why; there might be a reason that both parties have contributions to the situation. If not, don't give the guy a second chance.


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posted July 28, 2012 04:24PM
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That would hurt if the girl looks ugly like kristen stewart.
panget na nga nagcheat pa.

Dun ka nalang sa maganda.
yun nga lang greater chances na cheater din
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posted July 28, 2012 04:29PM
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jmxstudiosnet posted on July 28, 2012 04:24PM
That would hurt if the girl looks ugly like kristen stewart.
panget na nga nagcheat pa.

Dun ka nalang sa maganda.
yun nga lang greater chances na cheater din
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i super agree!

kaya ang hirap pag ganitong maganda, akala nila playgirl ako. lol.

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posted July 28, 2012 04:32PM
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konti lang pala tayo na maganda na loyal pa
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posted July 28, 2012 04:43PM
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jmxstudiosnet posted on July 28, 2012 04:32PM
konti lang pala tayo na maganda na loyal pa
^^


tama! gawa nga tayo ng samahan...

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posted July 28, 2012 09:13PM
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I can forgive a cheater but it's so hard to trust again...


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posted July 28, 2012 09:19PM
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Cheater is always a Cheater, hump! :)

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posted July 29, 2012 10:29AM
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di ko masabi kung mapapatawad ko siya
baka kasi useless din e kasi by that time baka napatay ko na pala siya
kaya it is not a question of "will I forgive him" instead,
"will I pray for his soul to go to heaven or to hell?"
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posted July 29, 2012 10:36AM
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cheater "should" always be forgiven,.. but "never" should be forgotten,..
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posted July 29, 2012 10:51AM
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It is difficult to keep someone who is a cheater pa!

Pareho lang naman kayo magsa-suffer diyan. The idea that the other person is capable of cheating you sooner or later will always haunt you. And one day or another it will eventually manifest in your relationship with this person.

Ikaw pa yung sasabihan na paranoid.

Kung ako maaga pa pakawalan na ang cheater gawin niya gusto niyang gawin sa buhay niya.

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posted August 4, 2012 12:53PM
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lahat naman tayo nagsisinungaling diba, lahat din tayo gumagamit ng white lies...
papano naman din yung kasabihang "lahat ng tao nagbabago" kung ang basehan natin ay ang kasabihang "once a cheater always a cheater"

i've been with several relationships in the past and i admit, i cheated on some. but not all. and with my current relationship, i haven't cheated on him, and i have no plan.. so i guess, wala din sa record yan.. depende rin siguro sa tao, WHO IS HE/SHE DEALING WITH. kung may respeto sya o wala sa karelasyon nya...


pero ang sagot ko dito, O may, or I may not.
depende kung paano sya nagcheat...

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posted August 4, 2012 01:29PM
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sa mga niloko dyan...kung gusto nyo pong gumanti...magmamagandang loob na po akong tulungan kayo! gaganti tayo ng bonggang bongga!!! emoticonemoticonemoticon

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posted August 4, 2012 01:34PM
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ayos...
pwede pala volunteer dito
heheheheh

Cheating happened in a certain reason
forgive & forget
that cheating perhaps create a new wonderful beginning once overcome
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posted August 4, 2012 10:53PM
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nardawako posted on August 4, 2012 01:29PM

sa mga niloko dyan...kung gusto nyo pong gumanti...magmamagandang loob na po akong tulungan kayo! gaganti tayo ng bonggang bongga!!! emoticonemoticonemoticon


ahahaha..tatandaan ko ito, pag may lumapit sa akin at sinabing naloko cya...ipapakilala kita..joke! emoticon


@ topic:

I may forgive a cheater...but never forgets what he had done...

forgiving him, doesn't mean we can still be together, the same as before...it will take a lot of efforts for him to bring back the trust, respect & love that  i gave him before...and no assurance in return if all his effors is enought to save the relationship we have...

kaya mag-isip muna cya bago nya ako i-cheat!...hehe emoticon


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posted August 4, 2012 11:37PM
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i hate cheater...they will never play fair... 'nough said..
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posted August 5, 2012 12:07AM
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forgiving is not easy but you should.
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posted August 5, 2012 12:07AM
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cheating is a choice, not a mistake or accident. can be forgiven but not forgotten
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posted August 5, 2012 01:23AM
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jmxstudiosnet posted on July 29, 2012 10:51AM
It is difficult to keep someone who is a cheater pa!

Pareho lang naman kayo magsa-suffer diyan. The idea that the other person is capable of cheating you sooner or later will always haunt you. And one day or another it will eventually manifest in your relationship with this person.

Ikaw pa yung sasabihan na paranoid.

Kung ako maaga pa pakawalan na ang cheater gawin niya gusto niyang gawin sa buhay niya.


honga po, ano pa saysay para i-keep ang mga ganyang karelasyon. nagawa nya na gagawin nya uli, 'tas  forgive & forget 'no yun bakyang penikula? nyaa ha ha ha......

once na nag-cheat sa akin wala na talaga, anong sayang ang pinagsamahan emoticon mas sayang kung patuloy kayong magsasama dahil gagawin at gagawin pa rin nya yan. isang mahinang tao, madaling matukso, alang pake-alam sa kapwa.

di kaya ng sikmura ko ang ganun, nalawayan na ng iba kinakain ko, kakanin ko pa? buti kung laway lang....gross! emoticon

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