| posted July 28, 2012 04:05PM |
misstisay Majestic Sulitizen 6715 posts | a cheater will always be a cheater. so, no.
cheating is a form of lying. when that person lies, even it's just small white lie, it's still lying and therefore, can become a very big lie over time.
that person is easily forgiven but it's definitely hard to regain trust. |
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| posted July 28, 2012 04:18PM |
ardeelo Legendary Sulitizen 3628 posts - Registered: Sep 23, 2010
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| Who cheated? Me. I forgive myself many many times over. |
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| posted July 28, 2012 04:18PM |
twoleo Ultimate Sulitizen 2884 posts - Registered: Jan 7, 2012
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| Not all men do cheat. Some may have acceptable reason; perhaps he is not quite happy at home so he look elsewhere to fill the void. Men are just polygamous by nature. Therefore, just leave him alone dahil gusto lang niyang magkaroon ng sideline, pero hindi naman niya pababayaan ang kanyang pamilya. Nangyayari iyan ngayon at justifiable dahil mas maraming babae ang hindi magkakaroon ng asawa dahil kulang ang bilang ng lalaki para sa bawat babae (hindi dapat maging maramot ang babae sa kanyang asawa). If you are the one who feel cheated, just keep on evaluating why; there might be a reason that both parties have contributions to the situation. If not, don't give the guy a second chance. View message logs twoleo: updated on July 28, 2012 04:46PM twoleo: updated on July 28, 2012 04:44PM |
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| posted July 28, 2012 04:24PM |
jmxstudiosnet Majestic Sulitizen 6474 posts - Registered: Apr 19, 2010
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| That would hurt if the girl looks ugly like kristen stewart. panget na nga nagcheat pa.
Dun ka nalang sa maganda. yun nga lang greater chances na cheater din ^^ |
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| posted July 28, 2012 04:29PM |
misstisay Majestic Sulitizen 6715 posts | That would hurt if the girl looks ugly like kristen stewart. panget na nga nagcheat pa.
Dun ka nalang sa maganda. yun nga lang greater chances na cheater din ^^ i super agree! kaya ang hirap pag ganitong maganda, akala nila playgirl ako. lol. |
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| posted July 28, 2012 04:32PM |
jmxstudiosnet Majestic Sulitizen 6474 posts - Registered: Apr 19, 2010
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| posted July 28, 2012 04:43PM |
misstisay Majestic Sulitizen 6715 posts | konti lang pala tayo na maganda na loyal pa ^^ tama! gawa nga tayo ng samahan... |
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| posted July 28, 2012 09:13PM |
post22 Majestic Sulitizen 6491 posts - Registered: Jul 20, 2009
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| I can forgive a cheater but it's so hard to trust again... View message logs post22: updated on July 28, 2012 09:28PM |
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| posted July 28, 2012 09:19PM |
iluvmyworld13 Legendary Sulitizen 3632 posts - Registered: Mar 11, 2011
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| posted July 29, 2012 10:29AM |
MylaDagulo Legendary Sulitizen 3540 posts - Registered: Aug 18, 2011
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| di ko masabi kung mapapatawad ko siya baka kasi useless din e kasi by that time baka napatay ko na pala siya kaya it is not a question of "will I forgive him" instead, "will I pray for his soul to go to heaven or to hell?" |
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| posted July 29, 2012 10:36AM |
edlarec Sulitizen-to-be 44 posts - Registered: Jun 3, 2011
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| cheater "should" always be forgiven,.. but "never" should be forgotten,.. |
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| posted July 29, 2012 10:51AM |
jmxstudiosnet Majestic Sulitizen 6474 posts - Registered: Apr 19, 2010
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| It is difficult to keep someone who is a cheater pa!
Pareho lang naman kayo magsa-suffer diyan. The idea that the other person is capable of cheating you sooner or later will always haunt you. And one day or another it will eventually manifest in your relationship with this person.
Ikaw pa yung sasabihan na paranoid.
Kung ako maaga pa pakawalan na ang cheater gawin niya gusto niyang gawin sa buhay niya. 2 members think this post is SULIT! MylaDagulo, GaryLucasEnriquez |
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| posted August 4, 2012 12:53PM |
annie1989 Ultimate Sulitizen 2459 posts - Registered: Dec 19, 2008
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| lahat naman tayo nagsisinungaling diba, lahat din tayo gumagamit ng white lies... papano naman din yung kasabihang "lahat ng tao nagbabago" kung ang basehan natin ay ang kasabihang "once a cheater always a cheater"
i've been with several relationships in the past and i admit, i cheated on some. but not all. and with my current relationship, i haven't cheated on him, and i have no plan.. so i guess, wala din sa record yan.. depende rin siguro sa tao, WHO IS HE/SHE DEALING WITH. kung may respeto sya o wala sa karelasyon nya...
pero ang sagot ko dito, O may, or I may not. depende kung paano sya nagcheat...
:) |
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| posted August 4, 2012 01:29PM |
nardawako Legendary Sulitizen 4009 posts - Registered: Jan 24, 2011
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| posted August 4, 2012 01:34PM |
dadamhar Certified Sulitizen 105 posts - Registered: Dec 17, 2008
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| ayos... pwede pala volunteer dito heheheheh
Cheating happened in a certain reason forgive & forget that cheating perhaps create a new wonderful beginning once overcome |
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| posted August 4, 2012 10:53PM |
Filnet Ultimate Sulitizen 2754 posts - Registered: Jan 25, 2011
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| ahahaha..tatandaan ko ito, pag may lumapit sa akin at sinabing naloko cya...ipapakilala kita..joke!  @ topic: I may forgive a cheater...but never forgets what he had done... forgiving him, doesn't mean we can still be together, the same as before...it will take a lot of efforts for him to bring back the trust, respect & love that i gave him before...and no assurance in return if all his effors is enought to save the relationship we have... kaya mag-isip muna cya bago nya ako i-cheat!...hehe  1 member thinks this post is SULIT! GaryLucasEnriquez |
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| posted August 4, 2012 11:37PM |
ReuL Supreme Sulitizen 1211 posts - Registered: Jun 29, 2012
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| i hate cheater...they will never play fair... 'nough said.. |
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| posted August 5, 2012 12:07AM |
Intelenet Majestic Sulitizen 7187 posts | forgiving is not easy but you should. |
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| posted August 5, 2012 12:07AM |
hombre Elite Sulitizen 597 posts - Registered: May 25, 2008
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| cheating is a choice, not a mistake or accident. can be forgiven but not forgotten |
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| posted August 5, 2012 01:23AM |
GaryLucasEnriquez Legendary Sulitizen 4087 posts - Registered: Jul 4, 2012
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| #4 Poster (Last 24 Hours) #8 Poster (Last 7 Days) It is difficult to keep someone who is a cheater pa!
Pareho lang naman kayo magsa-suffer diyan. The idea that the other person is capable of cheating you sooner or later will always haunt you. And one day or another it will eventually manifest in your relationship with this person.
Ikaw pa yung sasabihan na paranoid.
Kung ako maaga pa pakawalan na ang cheater gawin niya gusto niyang gawin sa buhay niya. honga po, ano pa saysay para i-keep ang mga ganyang karelasyon. nagawa nya na gagawin nya uli, 'tas forgive & forget 'no yun bakyang penikula? nyaa ha ha ha...... once na nag-cheat sa akin wala na talaga, anong sayang ang pinagsamahan mas sayang kung patuloy kayong magsasama dahil gagawin at gagawin pa rin nya yan. isang mahinang tao, madaling matukso, alang pake-alam sa kapwa. di kaya ng sikmura ko ang ganun, nalawayan na ng iba kinakain ko, kakanin ko pa? buti kung laway lang....gross!  |
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