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How can you move on to someone you call BESTFRIEND

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posted August 13, 2012 09:44AM
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its been i guess 2 months since we break up. shes my best friend and my cousin. until now i dont know where to look for myself. until now i dont where to start and where to go just to find myself again. its really hard to move on unto something new when all this times she's been there and suddenly she disappear. help me.
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posted August 13, 2012 09:48AM
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If you survived two months there's no doubt you can go on.

Be with friends.

Libangin mo sarili mo.

Things happen for a reason.

Who knows there's really someone for you out there

and the breakup with your ex is part of that and is just the first step.

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posted August 13, 2012 10:02AM
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mahirap sa una... lalo na pag nakasanayan mo na kayo LANG lagi ang magkasama at magkausap.. sa mga unang months ganyan talaga mafefeel mo coz for sure, you'll miss that person.. lalo na pag yung mundo mo is umikot lang sa kanya when you were still together... then pag nagbreak, para kang naiwan sa ere.. para kang alien sa mundo coz maninibago ka na nag iisa ka na lang...

but don't worry, absindex is right... the only solution for that is buksan mo ang mundo mo sa ibang tao... makipagkaibigan ka sa iba na :) and as much as possible, try to have muna na walang communication with people na related sa inyo or may possibility na magtanong about your recent breakup.. basta have fun lang :) 


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posted August 13, 2012 10:45AM
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sa 2 months na yun sobrang hirap, dami kung ibinagsak. haissttt.. sana nga malagpasan q to.. sana nga kaya ko pa makita ulit ung pinka main reason bat kami nag end up.. gusto ko lang e save ung friendship naming dalawa.. at un din ung gusto niya.. but for now galit ung na ngingibabaw.. buti sana qng d reason is ung may iba siya.. sobrang sakit lang kase na may involve na ibang tao..
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posted August 13, 2012 10:59AM
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may kasabihan nga dba na time will heal... since fresh pa ang sugat, hindi dapat madaliin ang pagheal nito... yes, importante ang friendship pero ang mahirap kasi, ang taong involved sa misery mo now is 'that friend' of yours also, dba? napakaimposible nun... 

pray... for His guidance, peace of mind.. and ask Lord na bigyan Ka ng lakas ng loob para harapin ang mga susunod na araw sa buhay mo and to move on... wag ipilit ang hindi na pwede ipilit... hayaan mo lumawak muna ang mundo mo at buksan ang sarili mo sa ibang tao... since that person is your bestfriend... makakapaghintay yun... :) maaayos din ang lahat in God's perfect time ika nga... pag completely nakamove on na kayo pareho, maibabalik nyo na ang friendship nyo na completely wala nang samaan ng loob sa isat isa :)


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posted August 13, 2012 11:06AM
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I know is not that easy, been to that situation, cause the more you love someone the more painful it will be, knowing the fact that you will stop seeing someone who you really like and care about.Just be focus and continue moving forward with the right mind set.Wag mong isipin yung wonderful times with your partner. I know it's great knowing na meron kayong masasayang pagkakaton together pero kasi the more na iisipin mo yon the more na malulugmok ka at hindi makakabangon. Wag mong isiping nag-iisa lang sya dahil marami pang taong higit na mas karapat dapat.Isipin mong everything happens for a reason and it happens for your own good.Continue living maraming dahilan para mabuhay.SMILE...=))

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posted August 13, 2012 11:09AM
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sa madaling salita hindi breakup nangyari?

iniwan ka nya? emoticonemoticonemoticon


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posted August 13, 2012 11:11AM
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absindex posted on August 13, 2012 11:09AM

sa madaling salita hindi breakup nangyari?

iniwan ka nya.


Ganun ba yon bossing hahaha. Pareho lang naman yung mga payo namin pwede na rin iapply hahaha. emoticon

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posted August 13, 2012 11:13AM
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xXxRAMxXx posted on August 13, 2012 11:06AM
I know is not that easy, been to that situation, cause the more you love someone the more painful it will be, knowing the fact that you will stop seeing someone who you really like and care about.Just be focus and continue moving forward with the right mind set.Wag mong isipin yung wonderful times with your partner. I know it's great knowing na meron kayong masasayang pagkakaton together pero kasi the more na iisipin mo yon the more na malulugmok ka at hindi makakabangon. Wag mong isiping nag-iisa lang sya dahil marami pang taong higit na mas karapat dapat.Isipin mong everything happens for a reason and it happens for your own good.Continue living maraming dahilan para mabuhay.SMILE...=))


ang ganda ng sinabi ni ram :) perfectly said :)

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posted August 13, 2012 11:15AM
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baka hindi ka naman nya mahal talaga? emoticon

nagkamali lang ng desisyon? emoticon


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posted August 13, 2012 11:25AM
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yellowcupcake posted on August 13, 2012 11:13AM
xXxRAMxXx posted on August 13, 2012 11:06AM
I know is not that easy, been to that situation, cause the more you love someone the more painful it will be, knowing the fact that you will stop seeing someone who you really like and care about.Just be focus and continue moving forward with the right mind set.Wag mong isipin yung wonderful times with your partner. I know it's great knowing na meron kayong masasayang pagkakaton together pero kasi the more na iisipin mo yon the more na malulugmok ka at hindi makakabangon. Wag mong isiping nag-iisa lang sya dahil marami pang taong higit na mas karapat dapat.Isipin mong everything happens for a reason and it happens for your own good.Continue living maraming dahilan para mabuhay.SMILE...=))


ang ganda ng sinabi ni ram :) perfectly said :)


Asus! nambola pa, eh mas maganda ang sinabi nyo ni bossing abs.. emoticon

@topic:Kung sa tingin mo may kasalanan ka,humingi ka ng sorry kasi magpapagaan ng kalooban mo yon. Tanggapin mo sa sarili mo ang nangyayari that's normal. Be MAN enough,Grown up.


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posted August 13, 2012 11:30AM
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hahahaha.

parang si madam auring lang ba? or si madam myla? nambobolang kristal. haha. emoticon

hinde naman siguru.

 


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posted August 13, 2012 11:31AM
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xXxRAMxXx posted on August 13, 2012 11:25AM
yellowcupcake posted on August 13, 2012 11:13AM
xXxRAMxXx posted on August 13, 2012 11:06AM
I know is not that easy, been to that situation, cause the more you love someone the more painful it will be, knowing the fact that you will stop seeing someone who you really like and care about.Just be focus and continue moving forward with the right mind set.Wag mong isipin yung wonderful times with your partner. I know it's great knowing na meron kayong masasayang pagkakaton together pero kasi the more na iisipin mo yon the more na malulugmok ka at hindi makakabangon. Wag mong isiping nag-iisa lang sya dahil marami pang taong higit na mas karapat dapat.Isipin mong everything happens for a reason and it happens for your own good.Continue living maraming dahilan para mabuhay.SMILE...=))


ang ganda ng sinabi ni ram :) perfectly said :)


Asus! nambola pa, eh mas maganda ang sinabi nyo ni bossing abs.. emoticon

@topic:Kung sa tingin mo may kasalanan ka,humingi ka ng sorry kasi magpapagaan ng kalooban mo yon. Tanggapin mo sa sarili mo ang nangyayari that's normal. Be MAN enough,Grown up.


yun oh! galeng talaga ni ram.. mukhang may malalim na pinaghuhugutan  emoticon

@topic: yes... to forgive and be forgiven... dun ka lang talaga magkakaroon ng peace of mind at yun ang number 1 tool na need mo sa pagmmove on :)

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posted August 13, 2012 11:36AM
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yellowcupcake posted on August 13, 2012 11:31AM
xXxRAMxXx posted on August 13, 2012 11:25AM
yellowcupcake posted on August 13, 2012 11:13AM
xXxRAMxXx posted on August 13, 2012 11:06AM
I know is not that easy, been to that situation, cause the more you love someone the more painful it will be, knowing the fact that you will stop seeing someone who you really like and care about.Just be focus and continue moving forward with the right mind set.Wag mong isipin yung wonderful times with your partner. I know it's great knowing na meron kayong masasayang pagkakaton together pero kasi the more na iisipin mo yon the more na malulugmok ka at hindi makakabangon. Wag mong isiping nag-iisa lang sya dahil marami pang taong higit na mas karapat dapat.Isipin mong everything happens for a reason and it happens for your own good.Continue living maraming dahilan para mabuhay.SMILE...=))


ang ganda ng sinabi ni ram :) perfectly said :)


Asus! nambola pa, eh mas maganda ang sinabi nyo ni bossing abs.. emoticon

@topic:Kung sa tingin mo may kasalanan ka,humingi ka ng sorry kasi magpapagaan ng kalooban mo yon. Tanggapin mo sa sarili mo ang nangyayari that's normal. Be MAN enough,Grown up.


yun oh! galeng talaga ni ram.. mukhang may malalim na pinaghuhugutan  emoticon

@topic: yes... to forgive and be forgiven... dun ka lang talaga magkakaroon ng peace of mind at yun ang number 1 tool na need mo sa pagmmove on :)


Gutom lang yan cupcake mag-almusal ka na kasi bumaba ka na dyan sa kwarto mo.. emoticon

 

@topic: Lilipas din yan.. emoticon

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posted August 13, 2012 11:54AM
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TS teka lang. may tanong ako.

alam ba nya na naging kayo? emoticon


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posted August 13, 2012 12:09PM
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ang gagaling ninyo po magpayo, @absindex, yellowcupcake and ram. Well said!

For you wenkie, just keep on praying at malalagpasan mo din lahat ng pagsubok hindi ibibigay sayo ni Lord yan kung hindi mo kaya.

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